(Like/Love) At First Sight!!! : ) (Update: Victor's Theory of "Like/Love At First Sight")

This post is all about love and relationships, because this morning one of my friends email me, and said that she thought that she thought that I didn't believe in Love At First Sight, and here I clarify myself:

 

"I 100% DO NOT BELIEVE IN LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT!!!"

 

Love is too stong for your to find in a person that you just first set eyes on!!!

 

You might find that, that person is perfect and he/she is your true love, but it's 99.99% not!!!

 

Here I will list 3 reasons why the term "Love At First Sight" is theoretically impossible/incorrect.

 

1) Love is like wine, it is both sweet and bitter. For love to be found, two people must go through happiness and bitterness. You cannot go through all that is just a plain first sighting.

2) For love to be declared, a relationship must be tested to see if it can withstand outsiders. A relationship isn't perfect, but yet love is. A relationship must be tested for it be to called love, so there must be obtascles for them to overcome together.

3) For love to be found, both partners must be happy. There must be no regrets, or sadness involved or else it isn't love. As no one is perfect each partner must give up a little to make the relationship to workout. Some people find these little sacrifices nothing, and are happy to give them up, yet many aren't. They feel as though they sacrificed too much, and feel as though it isn't worth it. This way, they aren't happy. Therefore love isn't present.

 

I believe that "Like at First Sight" is theoretically possible, because unlike love, like is a much broader term. The distinguishment between love and like, is very hard, and some cannot distinguish the two apart. Liking someone, means that you admire the other person, and he/she would make a fine candidate as your future parter. It doesn't nessacarily need to be tested, or anything. Liking someone doesn't mean anything, except you admire the other person.

 

If I didn't convince you that "Love at First Sight" isn't possible, than whatever. Everyone has their own beliefs and this is what I believe. Have a fine day!!!